First dates can be rough situations. Many time they end up being quite painful and awkward. So what's the answer? Well, here are a few tips to get you started out right:
You should try to not meet at either one of your homes. And you also shouldn't try driving yourself. This is in case a need arises to terminate your date early, so you aren't trapped. It also help you to avoid impulsive behavior like inviting your date to come in. Plus, not having a car means not worrying about safety, and not knowing where you live means if the date turns sour you don't have to worry about any stalking or other headaches that could possible come out of it.
Always try to keep the first date very simple. They can make your nerves on edge. And when you're nervous it can sometimes complicate things. Don't try too hard. Make the date pleasant and enjoyable.
If you find you need or just want to end this date, then be sure to do it politely. Don't be offensive or brash. Stay courteous and keep things civil.
Women shouldn't wear provocative clothes that are too sexy on first dates. It sounds old fashioned, but some old fashioned values were born from experience, and hold true as good advice today. Besides, you want your date to get to know you, and not be distracted by your rocking body the whole night. Don’t give him too much to deal with on your first date.
Men should be specific on where you are taking your date. This makes things much more comfortable for the lady. It prepares her mind for what to expect and how she is to conduct herself. She doesn't want to have on a cocktail dress and then have you take her to some fast food place.
Wear some good comfortable clothing that gives you a feeling of confidence without being over the top. Things will be already uncomfortable without having to sit with your waist all scrunched in. And for men, you don't want to have that old itchy tie on all night.
Try not to go overboard with the cologne. Lots of guys make this mistake, and the heaviness of the scent can actually be a distraction. It's hard to get through the evening in the presence of an entity that lives in the air around you. Be sure that you use some good mouthwash and brush those teeth. It's a good idea to keep mints in your pocket for use throughout the date.
During the date ask good informative questions about your date. Having a healthy interest in want to know more about them is flattering. It's a sign to them that you like them. The best conversationalists are the ones who ask lots of questions about others. You can find some common ground to talk about, like sports, or hobbies, music, or work. Keep things light and easy and don't push when you feel that your date is feeling uneasy.
And be sure to have fun. Be the you that is fun to be with!