For quite a while now, most women have embarked on the mission towards the elusive ‘dream guy’. But how do you know if you are making progress on your quest or are simply risking your safety? Here is some guideline to help you determine whether you are making the most out of your dating life without compromising on your safety.
Trust yourself – this is more or less like the above mentioned tip. If a guy seems too good to be true for you, most probably he is. Never be misled by syrupy promises. You should learn how to psychoanalyze a guy and conducting some background check on him before committing your all.
Listen to your instincts and heart – if your gut feeling or intuition tells you that you aren’t striking a cord with a particular man, follow your gut feeling and drop the guy in the gentlest of ways possible. Dating isn’t about jumping on any man who comes your way showing some feign interest. Dating is also not about settling for less than you deserve.
Avoid peer pressure – in case your friends are aware of your online dating exploit and are pressuring you to single out a particular guy that you feel doesn’t make the cut for you, or for your potential mate’s standards, you shouldn’t be influenced by their pleas. If the ladies want the guy, by all means let the take him. Single dating isn’t about group decisions but individual decision.
Be steadfast – You should stand your grounds, and keep yourself grounded. Avoid being swept off your feet with the frivolous feeling all too often. When you take your time and take a step at a time, you will be safe from getting hurt if the guy will not eventually meet your expectations. Single dating shouldn’t be taken as an overnight success, so you should be very cautious.
If all along you have been in search of a long-term serious relationship leading to marriage, here are some guaranteed tips to help you spot a guy who is NOT a potential mate.
1. He doesn’t let you into his close circle of friends
2. He insists on rushing you to bed
3. He is very unreliable e.g. promising to call you and doesn’t keep the promise
4. He doesn’t speak a word about your future life together.
With that in mind therefore, and you have a very cautious and not paranoid approach, you will be well on your way for the goodies that await you in single dating.